In the middle of a session the other day I had a powerful realization. I was asked to think of a relationship I had with something in the last week that in my mind was the ideal relationship, and to think of what it was about that relationship that made it ideal.

A number of men in the group thought of their cars, tool sheds, families, workmates, old friends, even relationships with objects such as their television remote, recliner chair, or favorite pair of shoes. To each of these men, these things felt comfortable, and simple. The relationships they had with these people or objects was rewarding and easy to maintain.

When my turn came to identify my ideal relationship, I thought of my dog. My dog has very simple needs, and it is the ultimate ego-boost for me when I get home at night and I am greeted in such an enthusiastic fashion. I don’t know of any others that greet me so enthusiastically night after night. No matter how long I have been away from the house or no matter how my day has been. I call this unconditional love.

So what is unconditional love?

Unconditional love is the type of love that comes without conditions. It is the type of love that you have for your partner when the romantic, hollywood-style love is gone. Once the romantic love is gone you make the transition to “real” love. Real love is love you have for your partner despite the knowledge that they are not perfect. You know your partner has faults. You know your partner is not perfect. You know your partner makes mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. You still love them. This is unconditional love.

The same thing applies to you however in looking at your partner’s faults. You acknowledge that you are the same. You have faults. You are not perfect. You know you make mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. That’s called self-acceptance, and you expect unconditional love to overcome the faults and imperfections that people have.

So what do you get from this then? Should we all go out and get dogs to teach us something about unconditional love? Maybe there is a lesson to be learnt here. We all clutter our lives with trials and tribulations, and there is the temptation to let our issues rule our lives.

But if you are serious about saving your marriage you need to put the clutter to one side and let your unconditional love come through. It is okay to have faults and make mistakes. And love will conquer them all.

Have a think about unconditional love and how you can apply this realization to your relationship.

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I get the opportunity to review a lot of products that come across my desk, so its easy to lose interest in a lot of what I see. That was, until recently when I met Amy Waterman. Amy, online author of Save My Marriage Today Asked me to have a look over her book and tell her what I thought. At first I was skeptical, but I thought, hey, I have friends who are in bad marriages, and this information might be good for one of them, so I decided to read it closely. By the time I had finished, I was hooked! I realized for the first time, that this book would be really helpful for couples with marital difficulties. I don’t just mean young couples either. This book applies to couples young and old. So I thought I would share this book with you too. Everybody knows someone who is in a difficult or failing marriage, or it may even be you…..
Nobody said marriage was ever going to be easy, and if they did, they were lying. It’s perfectly normal in a marriage to have disagreements and times when things involve a little more effort than they used to. In an ideal world we would sit and talk about these changes and differences in a calm and rational manner, and establish an outcome and move on. Unfortunately things don’t always work like that. Its all too easy to get caught up in the moment and let things deteriorate to the point where you are both wondering why you are still in it.
Amy has developed a book that encourages couples to break the ice and develop ways to interact and strengthen their failing relationship. She deals with topics such as:

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PRINCE VINCENT

ATTITUDE TO SEX THAT AFFECTS MARRIAGES.

By prince Vincent

The act of fore-play in a sexual relationship can not be over emphasized. Some men do not prepare their wife for this act which is most important, and the very oil that greases the machine of the marriage.

Many women feel boring whenever their husbands demand for sex.
Not because they don’t want it, but because of the way their husbands approaches them for such an act .some men don’t know that every woman is like electric iron, when you plug it, it takes some minute before it gets hot or charges. So also every woman needs romance before the real act (sex)

Some husband will return from office/work, and order their wife to the bed, when she obeyed, he will jump onto her like cow and when he gets tired he will jump down without minding whether his wife is satisfied or not .No woman is pleased with such a man.

The worst thing you can do to your partner is to deny him or her SEXUAL SATISFACTION. My friend, allow your wife to reach her orgasm, otherwise she will be frustrated anytime she notice your move for such act.

Many homes have been broken because of SEX DENIAL. Most men hate their wives because of that .The major thing that causes problem in a family today is the issue of SEX DENIAL. Many men have reported their partner to pastors, confidants and elders of their family on the issues of SEX DENIAL, not knowing that they are the cause of the whole problem. Electric iron can not iron your clothe without being charged, so also no woman can give you SEXUAL SATISFACTION without enough romance .So reporting her to your pastors, elders and confidants is not the issue, the issue is to learn how to make love with your partner and satisfy her.

Learn all methods of love-making and put them in practice to nourish your marriage. The essence of satisfying lovemaking in a marriage can NOT be over emphasized. In every institution there are principles and practices, and people who belong to that institution must put themselves in a state to obey the rules of the institution for harmony and well being of partners. The same principle applies to marriage, and her components. Therefore the following methods are to enable both of you to enjoy each other. When you continue to practice one method of love-making (missionary position) every day it becomes a routine, and tends to bore. Take action today, and make your marital sex life lively.

v Sitting position
v Rear entry position
v Face to face, side by side position
v Face to face, man on top
v Face to face, woman on top.

They say that variety is the spice of life, couples are advised to not to take feelings of their spouse for granted.
Sexual relationship in marriage is a bonding and nourishing factor which can not be toyed with, if any one wants a healthy and happy married life .You may have to change your attitude towards sex, you may be like me, who has been taught from childhood that sex should not be talked about, or discussed. It is possible you’ve imbibed this attitude. Now that you’re married, it’s affecting your sexual relationship with your spouse.
Couple should whole-heartedly discuss their affairs/feelings towards each other; tell him or her, what he is not doing right to you on bed. Especially when they’re on these regimes which I categorize as follows;

1. High (actively involved and enjoying it)

2. Low (Not actually enjoying it but not complaining)

3. None existing. (A time when it is neither here nor there

During these regimes their sexual relationship could be classified as such judging by their activeness. There are times when work-place fatigue sets in, and the couple becomes excuse making on bed instead of giving their sweet-hearts a romantic night-to- remember. There are some other social factors which we shall discuss other times as part of the matters affecting marriage relationship.

Take a look at your sex life, and tell yourself that you’re satisfied with what you’re getting from your marriage relationship? But where you‘re not satisfied, and then you should seek ways to improve the factors you identify as attacking your sexual marital happiness.
Stay passionately and be romantically hooked, because your
Union is meant to last a life-time. Stay blessed until when I shall be taking you through another saving my marriage topic. Thanks for finding time to visit our site, and checking out what we have for you.
Please feel free to re-act to articles published on this site. Your sincere comments are welcomed.

Penix