Marriage is sacred and those who are involved in the union must try at all times; to play by the rule so that peace which is pivot on which marriage and family life rotates can guarantee their enjoyment of their respective unions.
Recently the news media is washed with news of celebrities involved in sexual escapades outside their marital union. The captain of English football team (Mr. John Terry) has been reported to be romancing another player’s estranged spouse which the coach of English team saw as not allowing healthy dressing-room relationship among players of ‘three lion’s as English team is called. This affair has affected his removal as the captain of English team.
The number one golf player “Mr. Tiger Wood “is also fighting the battle of his life to regain his integrity at hands of his wife, sponsors, and fans, after admitting being involved in extra-marital affairs. Several celebrities have been engaged in extra martial affairs in the past, some theirs got exposed while some still have theirs under cover. Nevertheless, let us now look at some of the reasons why some married people would venture into extra-marital affaires despite having such a beautiful spouse.

• Many married people are so pry-occupied with duty-calls that their marital responsibilities have taken a back seat (some claimed they have provided her with all she needed) and they expect their spouse to be happy and show understanding.
• Some women are created with hate for sex, therefore they can afford to endure the absence of it while some can not endure for a day hence if you apply a general rule, and some would definitely get their feel somewhere else. Therefore to save marriage and your spouse from embarrassing moments, you are advised to weigh and understand the sexual needs of each other and see how to compliment him or her. Compromise is always needed to succeed in any marriage union.
• Can you take a look at your dressing recently? Is it the same thing as at time you meet each other? Despite that marriage is also a spiritual matter, but I still believed that what our eyes sees contributes a lot to what we accepts. Please see where you have fallen below his/her expectation and make amends, so that his or her passion for you will continue to wax hot.
• What is your bed-room mannerism? Have you taken a look at what you wear to bed of late? Men and women who are in marriage should endeavor always to impress one another, to curtail any outside impressions.
• You can do your best by helping your spouse to life-out his sexual urge and be happy with each other.

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At the beginning  of every relationship couples have popped-up emotions and bottled-up fantasies which they intend to live out on their marriage, some succeeds in bring their fantasy to reality as the prince-charming struggles to impress the wife and vice verse. Most times couples do their best to prove to their spouse that what happened to them during courtship and honeymoon was not a fluke. The amazing thing about family life is that it is not always with roses, it is a balanced sweet-bitter taste for matured minds. Comparing the courtship, honeymoon and family life-style will be doing wrong thing for right reason Some couple have found themselves still savoring the memories of their courtship and honeymoon era while the reality on the ground is presenting a tough family challenge to the couple. Some times duty call and expanded responsibilities can bring neglect to either party. This condition can be misinterpreted by either spouse, depending on who is too busy. It’s at this jointure that doubt, and suspicion sets into the relationship and May mare their once sweet relationship. It’s been noted that wives of busy executives indulges more in extra-marital because their spouse are not always with them to play their conjugal role, hence some has resorted to alternative means to settle this emotional need of their life thereby creating a problem in the relationship. To avoiding extra marital relationship, couple must begin to bond together, and play their expected roles toward one another. Especially during this valentine celebration, efforts must be geared towards showing each other how much you love him or her. It’s expedient you present your spouse with exciting gift/love notes at this valentine season. Nothing stops you from preparing for a special night out side your home, where you can pamper each other with exciting love and affection. Hey! Take this time to rekindle your love and passion for one another. Happy ValeHOW TO AVOID EXTRA-MARRITAL AFFAIRS IN MARRIAGE At the beginning of every relationship couples have popp-up emotions and bottled-up fantaHOW TO AVOID EXTRA-MARRITAL AFFAIRS IN MARRIAGE At the beginning of every relationship couples have popped-up emotions and bottled-up fantasies which they intend to live out on their marriage, some succeeds in bring their fantasy to reality as the prince-charming struggles to impress the wife and vice verse. Most times couples do their best to prove to their spouse that what happened to them during courtship and honeymoon was not a fluke. The amazing thing about family life is that it is not always with roses, it is a balanced sweet-bitter taste for matured minds. Comparing the courtship, honeymoon and family life-style will be doing wrong thing for right reason Some couple have found themselves still savoring the memories of their courtship and honeymoon era while the realityHOW TO AVOID EXTRA-MARRITAL AFFAIRS IN MARRIAGE At the beginning of every relationship couples have popped-up emotions and bottled-up fantasies which they intend to live out on their marriage, some succeeds in bring their fantasy to reality as the prince-charming struggles to impress the wife and vice verse. Most times couples do their best to prove to their spouse that what happened to them during courtship and honeymoon was not a fluke. The amazing thing about family life is that it is not always with roses, it is a balanced sweet-bitter taste for matured minds. Comparing the courtship, honeymoon and family life-style will be doing wrong thing for right reason Some couple have found themselves still savoring the memories of their courtship and honeymoon era while the reality on the ground is presenting a tough family challenge to the couple. Some times duty call and expanded responsibilities can bring neglect to either party. This condition can be misinterpreted by either spouse, depending on who is too busy. It’s at this jointure that doubt, and suspicion sets into the relationship and May mare their once sweet relationship. It’s been noted that wives of busy executives indulges more in extra-marital because their spouse are not always with them to play their conjugal role, hence some has resorted to alternative means to settle this emotional need of their life thereby creating a problem in the relationship. To avoiding extra marital relationship, couple must begin to bond together, and play their expected roles toward one another. Especially during this valentine celebration, efforts must be geared towards showing each other how much you love him or her. It’s expedient you present your spouse with exciting gift/love notes at this valentine season. Nothing stops you from preparing for a special night out side your home, where you can pamper each other with exciting love and affection. Hey! Take this time to rekindle your love and passion for one another. Happy Valentine Cheers on the ground is presenting a tough family challenge to the couple. Some times duty call and expanded responsibilities can bring neglect to either party. This condition can be misinterpreted by either spouse, depending on who is too busy. It’s at this jointure that doubt, and suspicion sets into the relationship and May mare their once sweet relationship. It’s been noted that wives of busy executives indulges more in extra-marital because their spouse are not always with them to play their conjugal role, hence some has resorted to alternative means to settle this emotional need of their life thereby creating a problem in the relationship. To avoiding extra marital relationship, couple must begin to bond together, and play their expected roles toward one another. Especially during this valentine celebration, efforts must be geared towards showing each other how much you love him or her. It’s expedient you present your spouse with exciting gift/love notes at this valentine season. Nothing stops you from preparing for a special night out side your home, where you can pamper each other with exciting love and affection. Hey! Take this time to rekindle your love and passion for one another. Happy Valentie Cheers sies which they intend to live out on their marriage, some succeeds in bring their fantasy to reality as the prince-charming struggles to impress the wife and vice verse. Most times couples do their best to prove to their spouse that what happened to them during courtship and honeymoon was not a fluke. The amazing thing about family life is that it is not always with roses, it is a balanced sweet-bitter taste for matured minds. Comparing the courtship, honeymoon and family life-style will be doing wrong thing for right reason Some couple have found themselves still savoring the memories of their courtship and honeymoon era while the reality on the ground is presenting a tough family challenge to the couple. Some times duty call and expanded responsibilities can bring neglect to either party. This condition can be misinterpreted by either spouse, depending on who is too busy. It’s at this jointure that doubt, and suspicion sets into the relationship and May mare their once sweet relationship. It’s been noted that wives of busy executives indulges more in extra-marital because their spouse are not always with them to play their conjugal role, hence some has resorted to alternative means to settle this emotional need of their life thereby creating a problem in the relationship. To avoiding extra marital relationship, couple must begin to bond together, and play their expected roles toward one another. Especially during this valentine celebration, efforts must be geared towards showing each other how much you love him or her. It’s expedient you present your spouse with exciting gift/love notes at this valentine season. Nothing stops you from preparing for a special night out side your home, where you can pamper each other with exciting love and affection. Hey! Take this time to rekindle your love and passion for one another. 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Some couple can see marriage as a pain in the neck because of the way they have conducted it. Can you imagine having to ask your partner every need of your life? Even when you can afford to buy them by yourself, it’s either because you see yourself as a wife who must get every of your needs you’re your husband (why did he marry me if he can not provide for me?). In the running of the home, it is expected that both couples should be sincere in dealing with finances whether it s been earned by one of them or both. Some times, it’s amazing to see some working ladies (Career women) dodge their financial obligation to the family while expecting their male partner to shoulder the whole responsibility, merely because he is a man, while the wife engages in frivolous spending. Family spending should be prioritized on the needs of the family and also should the decision of both couple, some times children are meant to contribute their ideas to some certain issues especially when their interests are involved. Because some are stingy and selfish in their marriages hence this attitude has brought them pain.
This attitude has destroyed several marriages, especially when both partners are educated and has a well paying job.

Take for an example, a friend of mine lost his marriage recently as result several crises in the marriage but their major problem being the way moneywas earned and spent. The wife sees her husband as financial tree hence she would not contribute her primary quota to the running of the home. Here is our advice to couples, if you must make your marriage work .Be open to your partner concerning everything that comes into the purse of the family. When both of you are on a paying job or having other source of income, it’s advised that you should let your partner know how much comes into the purse and also engage in the planning of the family expenditure. It is necessary to eliminate all cracks of suspension on both ends. Some men have not done well in this regards, especially when they would make provision for some social expenditures which they would not like their partners to be aware of, thereby creating room for suspension of extra-marital affairs which is not healthy for the relationship.

Sharing responsibility makes every load lighter in the home; it’s very worrisome when somebody who is supposed to lend a helping hand decides to be on the contrary.

Begin today to work-out your differences, and create a healthy relationship with your partner.

4. Difficulties with Penetration.
The commonest difficulty with penetration is a condition called vaginimus. It is a phobic anxiety response to any attempt at vaginal penetration, in which the woman becomes anxious tension occurs in the vaginal muscles, and any attempt at penetration is painful.
Vaginismus may have followed by an unpleasant traumatic sexual event in the woman’s life but usually occurs because of ignorance or misinformation or from guilt developed from parental sexual attitudes.
Pain during intercourse may be due to other problems such as pelvic infections
5. Sexual Phobia
Vaginismus is an example of a sexual phobia, where one particular aspect of the sexual act becomes anxiety provoking. Some women show phobia avoidance of semen, and rush from the bed to have a vigorous shower whenever they come in contact with their partner’s semen.
Such phobic avoidance can totally ruin a sexual relationship.
5. Anomalous Sexual Behaviour
The prevalence of lesbianism in women is higher than in men (in Europe) and is probably tolerable due to the fact that lesbianism in women is more socially tolerable over there and it is also not illegal, the a etiology of lesbianism is obscure and there appears to be consistent adults hormonal reason for it.
Transsexualism also occurs in the women. A transsexual is convinced despite outward appearance that she is of the opposite sex. This fixed belief is usually held from childhood. The person feels comfortable if dressed in the clothes of the opposite sex and indeed may seek corrective surgery. The social pressure on the individual to conform to her outward sexual stereotype causes a great distress.
Treatment
A full assessment of sexual problem is necessary before treatment .Physical problems rarely cause of sexual difficulty.
IT CAN BE DIFFICULT TO DECIDE WHETHER SEXUAL DIFFICULTY IS CAUSING A MARITAL PROBLEM OR A MARITAL PROBLEM IS CAUSING A SEXUAL DIFFICULTY.
Obvious hostility or coldness between partners however is a poor sign in terms of a successful treatment of sexual difficulty.
Psychological methods of treatment based on behavioral principles are the most effective methods of treating sexual difficulties. Masters and Johnson’s techniques appear to be the bench mark by which other treatment options are measured. If you are worried about any of the discussed sexual disorders, see a Medical Doctor with training and interest in psycho-sexual problems.cheers