It’s expected that when people are married they should live together as husband and wife but sometimes factors beyond them keeps them in different locations, some marriages have suffered as a result of this distant-relationships. Couples who would never have thought of having problems in their marriages are saddled with some problems generated by these distant marriage affairs. Probably you would not have conceded to marry him, if you knew very well the problems associated with distant relationships. Now that you’re into it, your choice should be to work hard towards saving your marriage. It has been observed that women suffer more in this distant relationship; take for instance, a man marries a wife and spent just six months with the new wife, and gets an opportunity to travel abroad. The man goes ahead to make promises to his wife of good things of life which his traveling abroad will bring to their new family. The wife naturally agrees to her husband’s proposal seeing the goodies promised, and believing every word of her husband to be true. But most times the wife is short-sighted and would not bother about the other side to the coin. Some of these arrangements are infested with numerous un-seen problem which shows up at there due time.

Tips To Watch For;

Communications becomes seldom, and in-affectionate in his discussions (It shows a crack on the wall of the marriage)

1. Its possible for the other party to see his/her spouse as money making machine (focuses on material things)

2. How does he/she fill his/her sexual desires( this arrangement will matter to both parties, since it might attract other factors)

3. This arrangement is easily infected with the virus of infidelity( some times an arranged wife is even organized abroad, it might be with knowledge of the substantive wife)

4. Since marriage is an art of co-habiting between two mutually loving people, distance always pose a barrier to the relationship, it breeds coldness and suspicion in the affairs.

5. Some couple pretends to be in love with their spouse while internally suffering from neglect and abandonment in the relationship.

6. Does he/she abhor un-scheduled visit of you to his/her location? (He or She Could is two timing you).

Distance relationships are not totally problematic it depends on how the couple allows the factors that destroy marriage to invade them. Examples are bound of couple who have made success of their marriages, while some have mischievous and taken advantage their spouse absence to cause the marriage to collapse. Whether you are involved in a long-distance marriage or not, be sure are honest and fair to your partner at all time knowing that it will matter in your lives and well being of the relationship.

Enjoy your marriage to the fullest. Cheers.

Prince Vincent

At the beginning  of every relationship couples have popped-up emotions and bottled-up fantasies which they intend to live out on their marriage, some succeeds in bring their fantasy to reality as the prince-charming struggles to impress the wife and vice verse. Most times couples do their best to prove to their spouse that what happened to them during courtship and honeymoon was not a fluke. The amazing thing about family life is that it is not always with roses, it is a balanced sweet-bitter taste for matured minds. Comparing the courtship, honeymoon and family life-style will be doing wrong thing for right reason Some couple have found themselves still savoring the memories of their courtship and honeymoon era while the reality on the ground is presenting a tough family challenge to the couple. Some times duty call and expanded responsibilities can bring neglect to either party. This condition can be misinterpreted by either spouse, depending on who is too busy. 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If you are willing to make your marriage work, then you must endeavour to answer these under listed soul- searching questionnaire. Our idea for putting these forward is to enable you make-up where necessary in your marriage.

· How do I make my marriage a priority
· Can he trust me? Do I hold personal information in confidence? (E.g. don’t tell my close friends his private thoughts if he wants me to keep them confidential.)
· How can I make meeting his sexual needs more of a priority?
· How can make self more attractive to him? Get rid of the nightly face cream? Change out of my pajamas or sweats before he arrives home from work? Do my hair on weekends?
· Are the two us unified in how we view spending habits? Domestic responsibilities
· How can I develop my potentials for God’s glory, fully using my gifts and talents so that he is married to a godly, interesting woman? (According to one survey, the greatest cause of stress is undeveloped potential; certainly, a significant cause of depression in women is undeveloped potential.)
· Do I speak well of him or do I refer to him in public as Boss Hogg?
· Do I withhold trust from him even in areas where he has proved himself trustworthy? (Talking with other women, spending habits, etc.)
· Am I warm and supportive of him? Do I affirm his strengths and gifts?
· How can I be more fun to be with?
· Does my attitude of submission toward my husband reflect the relationship of the church to Christ?
· Do I demonstrate a gentle, quiet spirit?
· If someone were to ask my husband, would he be able to say honestly, “Being with this woman strengthens my relationship with the Lord”? Could he say, “I have seen the heart of Christ in her “?

Please list four your husband’s most admirable traits

 
At marriage seminars we have surveyed women, asking what helps put them “in the mood.” Here’s what they said:
·                    Do all these things during the day, not Just at night:
·                    Be attentive when I talk.
·                    Show interest in what’s going on with me through conversation and thoughtfulness.
·                    Provide me with lots of emotional/verbal communication.
·                    Don’t focus constantly on “downer” circumstances at work.
·                    Compliment me during the day on both inner and outer beauty.
·                    Say affectionate things.
·                    Avoid barbed comments.
·                    Give or mail me a love note–personal romantic thoughts from the heart.
·                    Take me out to dinner.
·                    Hire a babysitter.
·                    Brush my hair.
·                    Give me a massage.
·                    Take me out once a week.
·                    Hold hands with me.
·                    Walk together outside.
·                    Pray with me – more than just the dinner blessing.
·                    Slow dance with me. You don’t need lessons; just hug me to music.
·                    Watch romantic movies. Yes, these are chick flicks. You married a “chick.”
·                    Have candlelight dinners at home – no waiter to interrupt.
·                    Share personal romantic thought from the heart.
·                    Take weekend getaways at least once a year.
·                    Make a big deal of our anniversary.
·                    Tell me what you find romantic. Beach? Mountains? Dirt biking?
·                    Kiss me for real, not just little pecks, puckers, or air kisses.
·                    Hug for real. Go for the full face -to-face deal.
·                    Take your time at foreplay. God did not give us all this skin for nothing
·                    Talk to me about what you want during sex.
If men could put the above things into practice, they will have sure blissful relationship.
 
 
 
 

In the middle of a session the other day I had a powerful realization. I was asked to think of a relationship I had with something in the last week that in my mind was the ideal relationship, and to think of what it was about that relationship that made it ideal.

A number of men in the group thought of their cars, tool sheds, families, workmates, old friends, even relationships with objects such as their television remote, recliner chair, or favorite pair of shoes. To each of these men, these things felt comfortable, and simple. The relationships they had with these people or objects was rewarding and easy to maintain.

When my turn came to identify my ideal relationship, I thought of my dog. My dog has very simple needs, and it is the ultimate ego-boost for me when I get home at night and I am greeted in such an enthusiastic fashion. I don’t know of any others that greet me so enthusiastically night after night. No matter how long I have been away from the house or no matter how my day has been. I call this unconditional love.

So what is unconditional love?

Unconditional love is the type of love that comes without conditions. It is the type of love that you have for your partner when the romantic, hollywood-style love is gone. Once the romantic love is gone you make the transition to “real” love. Real love is love you have for your partner despite the knowledge that they are not perfect. You know your partner has faults. You know your partner is not perfect. You know your partner makes mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. You still love them. This is unconditional love.

The same thing applies to you however in looking at your partner’s faults. You acknowledge that you are the same. You have faults. You are not perfect. You know you make mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. That’s called self-acceptance, and you expect unconditional love to overcome the faults and imperfections that people have.

So what do you get from this then? Should we all go out and get dogs to teach us something about unconditional love? Maybe there is a lesson to be learnt here. We all clutter our lives with trials and tribulations, and there is the temptation to let our issues rule our lives.

But if you are serious about saving your marriage you need to put the clutter to one side and let your unconditional love come through. It is okay to have faults and make mistakes. And love will conquer them all.

Have a think about unconditional love and how you can apply this realization to your relationship.

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