28Things wives wish their husbands knew about them,that makes them feel close and put them in the “Mood.”

At marriage seminars we have surveyed women, asking what helps put them “in the mood.” Here’s what they said:

·                    Do all these things during the day, not Just at night:

·                    Be attentive when I talk.

·                    Show interest in what’s going on with me through conversation and thoughtfulness.

·                    Provide me with lots of emotional/verbal communication.

·                    Don’t focus constantly on “downer” circumstances at work.

·                    Compliment me during the day on both inner and outer beauty.

·                    Say affectionate things.

·                    Avoid barbed comments.

·                    Give or mail me a love note–personal romantic thoughts from the heart.

·                    Take me out to dinner.

·                    Hire a babysitter.

·                    Brush my hair.

·                    Give me a massage.

·                    Take me out once a week.

·                    Hold hands with me.

·                    Walk together outside.

·                    Pray with me – more than just the dinner blessing.

·                    Slow dance with me. You don’t need lessons; just hug me to music.

·                    Watch romantic movies. Yes, these are chick flicks. You married a “chick.”

·                    Have candlelight dinners at home – no waiter to interrupt.

·                    Share personal romantic thought from the heart.

·                    Take weekend getaways at least once a year.

·                    Make a big deal of our anniversary.

·                    Tell me what you find romantic. Beach? Mountains? Dirt biking?

·                    Kiss me for real, not just little pecks, puckers, or air kisses.

·                    Hug for real. Go for the full face -to-face deal.

·                    Take your time at foreplay. God did not give us all this skin for nothing

·                    Talk to me about what you want during sex.

If men could put the above things into practice, they will have sure blissful relationship.

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