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Some couple can see marriage as a pain in the neck because of the way they have conducted it. Can you imagine having to ask your partner every need of your life? Even when you can afford to buy them by yourself, it’s either because you see yourself as a wife who must get every of your needs you’re your husband (why did he marry me if he can not provide for me?). In the running of the home, it is expected that both couples should be sincere in dealing with finances whether it s been earned by one of them or both. Some times, it’s amazing to see some working ladies (Career women) dodge their financial obligation to the family while expecting their male partner to shoulder the whole responsibility, merely because he is a man, while the wife engages in frivolous spending. Family spending should be prioritized on the needs of the family and also should the decision of both couple, some times children are meant to contribute their ideas to some certain issues especially when their interests are involved. Because some are stingy and selfish in their marriages hence this attitude has brought them pain.
This attitude has destroyed several marriages, especially when both partners are educated and has a well paying job.
Take for an example, a friend of mine lost his marriage recently as result several crises in the marriage but their major problem being the way moneywas earned and spent. The wife sees her husband as financial tree hence she would not contribute her primary quota to the running of the home. Here is our advice to couples, if you must make your marriage work .Be open to your partner concerning everything that comes into the purse of the family. When both of you are on a paying job or having other source of income, it’s advised that you should let your partner know how much comes into the purse and also engage in the planning of the family expenditure. It is necessary to eliminate all cracks of suspension on both ends. Some men have not done well in this regards, especially when they would make provision for some social expenditures which they would not like their partners to be aware of, thereby creating room for suspension of extra-marital affairs which is not healthy for the relationship.
Sharing responsibility makes every load lighter in the home; it’s very worrisome when somebody who is supposed to lend a helping hand decides to be on the contrary.
Begin today to work-out your differences, and create a healthy relationship with your partner.