HOW WIVES CAN IMPROVE THEIR RELATIONSHIPS

If you are willing to make your marriage work, then you must endeavour to answer these under listed soul- searching questionnaire. Our idea for putting these forward is to enable you make-up where necessary in your marriage.

· How do I make my marriage a priority

· Can he trust me? Do I hold personal information in confidence? (E.g. don’t tell my close friends his private thoughts if he wants me to keep them confidential.)

· How can I make meeting his sexual needs more of a priority?

· How can make self more attractive to him? Get rid of the nightly face cream? Change out of my pajamas or sweats before he arrives home from work? Do my hair on weekends?

· Are the two us unified in how we view spending habits? Domestic responsibilities

· How can I develop my potentials for God’s glory, fully using my gifts and talents so that he is married to a godly, interesting woman? (According to one survey, the greatest cause of stress is undeveloped potential; certainly, a significant cause of depression in women is undeveloped potential.)

· Do I speak well of him or do I refer to him in public as Boss Hogg?

· Do I withhold trust from him even in areas where he has proved himself trustworthy? (Talking with other women, spending habits, etc.)

· Am I warm and supportive of him? Do I affirm his strengths and gifts?

· How can I be more fun to be with?

· Does my attitude of submission toward my husband reflect the relationship of the church to Christ?

· Do I demonstrate a gentle, quiet spirit?

· If someone were to ask my husband, would he be able to say honestly, “Being with this woman strengthens my relationship with the Lord”? Could he say, “I have seen the heart of Christ in her “?

Please list four your husband’s most admirable traits

Tags: Make Your Marriage a Priority

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