At marriage seminars we have surveyed women, asking what helps put them “in the mood.” Here’s what they said:
·                    Do all these things during the day, not Just at night:
·                    Be attentive when I talk.
·                    Show interest in what’s going on with me through conversation and thoughtfulness.
·                    Provide me with lots of emotional/verbal communication.
·                    Don’t focus constantly on “downer” circumstances at work.
·                    Compliment me during the day on both inner and outer beauty.
·                    Say affectionate things.
·                    Avoid barbed comments.
·                    Give or mail me a love note–personal romantic thoughts from the heart.
·                    Take me out to dinner.
·                    Hire a babysitter.
·                    Brush my hair.
·                    Give me a massage.
·                    Take me out once a week.
·                    Hold hands with me.
·                    Walk together outside.
·                    Pray with me – more than just the dinner blessing.
·                    Slow dance with me. You don’t need lessons; just hug me to music.
·                    Watch romantic movies. Yes, these are chick flicks. You married a “chick.”
·                    Have candlelight dinners at home – no waiter to interrupt.
·                    Share personal romantic thought from the heart.
·                    Take weekend getaways at least once a year.
·                    Make a big deal of our anniversary.
·                    Tell me what you find romantic. Beach? Mountains? Dirt biking?
·                    Kiss me for real, not just little pecks, puckers, or air kisses.
·                    Hug for real. Go for the full face -to-face deal.
·                    Take your time at foreplay. God did not give us all this skin for nothing
·                    Talk to me about what you want during sex.
If men could put the above things into practice, they will have sure blissful relationship.